The Narcissist
Narcissists tend to be more alluring and most of the time more agreeable than others when first met. However, the facade abruptly goes into an abyss as the disorder begins to reveal itself. Yes, the exorbitant confidence is attractive, signalling prior success in both money and social aspects and I make no bones about it.
2. Bonding and Narcissism.
People who tend to have a higher risk of developing relationships with a narcissist are often those who reflect low levels of self-esteem and self-worth as far as I've seen. This behavioural inclination can be an attempt to seek a partner who can equal out their low sense of self-worth by overcompensating where they feel inadequate.
3.The Social Plan
The Narcissist will in turn seek out social and sexual partners that tend to have a low sense of self-worth and display a need for their extreme confidence. This allows them to control and be the führer in the relationship, in whatever manner they think will benefit them, while their partner always keeps them at the centre (the narcissist).
Last, but not least, a narcissist's biggest fear is to be called a ‘narcissist’, to be identified as one I should say. Narcissism is not as rare as we think it is, but rather very common. Many of us who are reading this have known them at least one or two, we hang out with them on a daily basis and the funny thing is, we might be one, but we don't want to accept the reality because it's a perfect world, but I'm sorry to break it to you, a perfect world is never perfect, it's only filled with ‘Lies’.
The question is, are ‘You’ a narcissist? And if you are, then is it a bad thing or a good thing, I'll leave that for you to decide.